I enjoy reflecting on the items that certainly enhanced my desires. I think all femdoms have their favorites, but here a few items that propelled my femdom urges. For those budding dominas, these are also the items that are guaranteed to bring a man to his knees
Hello First Time Femdoms and My Sexy Sluts,
I get two types of emails quite often (well, in addition to the groveling bitch sissies that beg for my attention, but I’ll get to that another time). They are:
1) Lovely women asking how they can properly dominate their boyfriend/husband/boss
2) Simpering men asking how they can turn their (un)willing girlfriend/wife/secretary into the sadistic femdom of their fantasies
Ok, great. It’s actually REALLY easy. I have always said that becoming a femdom – complete with insatiable, sadistic, incredibly erotic urges – is really just a matter of getting the right toys and putting on the right outfit. Boom. The lust just kind of washes over you. Hell, I wasn’t even a cruel vixen coming out of high school until I accidentally put on a pair of black PVC gloves! Fuck Cinderella and the shoe, it’s all about the black patent leather boot.
Sarcasm aside, I actually enjoy reflecting on the items that certainly enhanced my desires. I think all femdoms have their favorites, but here a few items that propelled my femdom urges.
(And, for those budding dominas, these are also the items that are guaranteed to bring a man to his knees).
In no particular order:
Elbow-length black gloves
I was joking about the gloves earlier. Well, kinda. Honestly, I don’t know why, but wearing gloves is always an instant turn-on. Elbow-length gloves are even better because when you use them as a gag, they will certainly stuff his slut mouth full. That said, better get two pairs.
Bondage kit – restraints
If you’ve been entangled in Akasha’s Web for the long haul, you know that bondage is my number one kink. I was tying up boys before I even knew there was such a thing as “S&M”. Great leather restraints are so easy to find now. I actually got my first set of leather restraints by having them custom made at a little shoe repair shop on the corner. I was too young to get into a sex shop. I picked out the leather and the buckles. Good times.
Strapon Harness
While there are definitely a lot of strap on harnesses out there that are designed to be visually distracting, I always tell my kinky fledglings to go for comfort and functionality. Remember, you are going to be ramming his ass hard – for a long time – so make sure it’s sturdy and adjustable. I’ve had strap-ons before that I broke on a bitch’s ass mid-thrust. You don’t want that.
Dildo Gag
If you are going to gag your little whore, you might as well mix in a little bit of humiliation, right? Here’s a tip: Different penis gags are different lengths. Make sure you don’t get one that’s going to literally choke your slave. Unless you are into that kind of thing.
Knee-high boot
Ah, home sweet home! I was cleaning out my closet recently and realized I have so many pairs of black patent leather boots that I can mix and match them and they still look like they are a matching set. Remember my first – yes first – story on my web site? It was called The Cruel Shoes – later illustrated by Sardax. Yeah, it was just a story back then, but my closet actually looks like that now.
What are your favorite toys, ladies? Oh – and subs – what are the toys that terrify you?
