My motivation is that I get off -- basically -- on knowing a man is suffering for me. I like to see him take it for me. I like to break down his will, to scare him, and to have him eventually beg for what he finds unthinkable, because he knows it will please me.
Why I enjoy bondage, pain, and humiliation.
I’ve been into female domination since I was a kid (tying up boys at the age of 7 or so but weren’t we all?). It’s just part of what I am.
My motivation is that I get off — basically — on knowing a man is suffering for me. I like to see him take it for me. I like to break down his will, to scare him, and to have him eventually beg for what he finds unthinkable, because he knows it will please me.
My early bondage games (16 or so, when I started dating) were bondage and blindfold teasing games. I liked the innocent begging. I didn’t realize until a little later that real begging would get me off even more.
As it became a little more tinged with sexuality, I learned that the begging was much more sincere if the victim had something to beg for. That is, not only tie him up and blindfold him and tease him with kisses and half kisses but tie him up and make him watch what he can’t have. Me slowly taking my clothes off. Or pleasuring myself. Getting suddenly very nasty when he can’t get away. Challenging him to try to get away (it was useless, by then I was pretty good at tying a guy up).
The bottom line was — it always came down to desperation and suffering. That begging look in the eyes.
I am fascinated by what makes a man feel this– what are the triggers. For some, it is pain — for others, the total helplessness of bondage. For others, it is a matter of bending their pride by degrading them a little. I enjoy all three but on varying levels, and mostly they depend on how the person reacts to them.
So..from the sub-point of view..which if the three do you find breaks you down the most? Which makes you beg — and why?
If there are any femdom lurkers, of course, what pushes their buttons would be of interest too.
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